A Counter Argument
I wrote a while ago about why I didn’t see the need for marriage. I don’t think, like some, that marriage is an expression of “doth protest too much” insecurity, but I also don’t see the need for marriage. I have a bunch of reasons, but the one relevant to this post is the sterility of marriage. We do the same things our parents did, because that’s what their parents did and so on. Most weddings aren’t expressions of love because there’s nothing about them that expresses that love except ritualistic ceremony and attendance.
But this video I came across today offers a counter argument to that. I’m still against marriage in general, but this video has given me an example of a wedding I wouldn’t mind having. Weddings can be whatever you want them to be, because we’re the grownups now: